J Cole couldn't have said it any better than he did during his interview with Angie Martinez at Salaam's house. He mentions if you can’t put down the drink, the smoke, or walk away from social media than it has control over you. Show yourself you're in control otherwise, expect to be controlled by outside forces. Cole also explains how people go about relationships the wrong way. Today people express that they "need" one another without having enough self-love. Focus on yourself, watch who you surround yourself with, and be real with yourself. People worship celebrities and put their faith in them, but don't even know what that person is entirely about. Lastly, some food for thought, J Cole says, "Why would I praise you (celebrities) and idolize you if you are the exact same as me?" He predicts that in the future celebrities will be non-existent.