Fellas can your girl have a guy best friend and if she can't, why not?
I feel like many people experience this situation, but I've personally never had this problem. In 2018, the term "best friend" has become very confusing in a lot of peoples lives. Your best friend is supposed to be someone you can depend on whenever you need something whether it's to talk, hang out, someone who makes life that much easier etc. In today's world, a best friend has become more of a "physical" relationship, and I can't relate. My best friend is a female we don't talk every day, but she's always there if I need something and vice versa.
So, I asked some of the friends how they would feel if their girl has a guy best friend. One of my friends feels that it's like another guy vying for her attention, and it puts more pressure on you to be that much better to her. Another said it's cool, she can have a guy best friend, it just gives him an excuse to leave her once the love of his life starts acting right. Also, her best friend probably makes her laugh, therefore it's a no. When you see another guy make your girl laugh top 2 worst feelings. Someone else said he's been in the so-called "best friend" area, so it's a no from him.
Females could also argue that guys who don't allow it are insecure and need to look in the mirror. A lot of times females gravitate to having more guys friends because they don't want to deal with drama.
I personally think it's all about communication and boundaries. It's hard to tell a female she has to get rid of her best friend, which might be there before you even start talking to her. Nowadays, it's harder to trust people and their intentions. So it's a no from me dog.
